Some Malay men become what we call ‘pondan’; this involves emulating women, taking an interest in make-up and even wearing their trousers zipped from behind.

No Chinese Malaysian woman will entertain a pondan as a husband.


We want a man to be a man.

At no time will the husband of a Malaysian Chinese lady dress in women’s clothing or any other such repulsive practices.

Remember: upon marriage a woman legally owns her husband and will take immediate possession of his finances, his body, his belongings and his property. At no point can the man choose to act against his wife’s interests because on reflection he will see that these coincide with his own.



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