Western people never take into account the fact that Asian women are usually not Christian. We are not eduacted in Christian values. This is why Asian people can own a dog but eat it if they run out of food. This is why Japanese still hunt whales and why Malaysians will literally eat anything.
Western men think of femdom in terms of hiring a lady to give them a certain femdom experience. Like ordering from a menu? This is all wrong.
In Japan, a man pays for an hour of a femdom lady’s time and she does to him what she wants to do to him.
e.g.: Watch the videos carefully and see that compassion, consideration and concern over the man’s wellbeing is not a factor.
Japanese ballbusting videos are widely available on-line and these show how much the women enjoy inflicting pain and the power it gives them. They are not horny for the man or turned on by the man. They probably have no sexual interest in the man. They are turned on by the power and the effect of their actions.
Most Malaysian Chinese are educated abroad and have no interest in marrying a local boy.
With regards a tai-tai, they’re somewhat easy to spot… The trick is to show interest in them, in food and in Malaysia. Flattery will get you everywhere.
If a tai-tai finds you amusing or entertaining she will parade you socially and this is your avenue for introductions.
Never mention femdom explicitly.
Quietly verbalize your belief that women do a better job than men, are vastly more attractive, look divine in pantyhose etc.
This is basically letting them know that you are receptive.
Marriage is another level altogether.
The tai-tai may or may not want use of you herself, and may act as marriage broker.
Prospects will be young, fit and healthy Chinese looking to marry into money.
Look for pantyhose and a certain propriety towards you.